Prince Harry and Meghan's tour of Australia shows what the royal family is missing

By Victoria Ward

There was talk of Tim Tams and koalas, large crowds, flowers and selfies.

I watched as the Duchess of Sussex hugged sick children, declared a hospital garden "serene", and was laden with handmade drawings and knitted flowers.

Prince Harry, meanwhile, agonised over a clay model of a "wingless kookaburra" and joked that he might struggle to get the sweet-smelling bark of a gumtree back home through customs.

Prince Harry and Meghan's tour of Australia is showing what the royal family is missing.

Instead, here they are, described as "B-grade reality TV stars" intent on using their royal titles to make money quickly.

It was fascinating to see the polarising couple in action as they embarked on what has proved – for many – a hugely controversial four-day tour of Australia.

In another life, this could be the couple's second official tour, instead a private trip to Australia.

The Duke and Duchess find themselves increasingly stuck between a rock and a hard place.

Having left the UK to seek financial independence, and with no more money flowing from the King's finances, they must find a way to pay the mortgage and those infamously hefty private security bills.

But when they try to combine business deals with charitable work that resembles the very royal duties they were so desperate to leave behind, the public pushes back.

Their whistle-stop tour of Australia was preceded by a string of negative opinion pieces and editorials in the local press, describing the couple as "grifters" who were using the country "like an ATM".

Television anchors on the breakfast shows repeatedly asked whether anyone was actually interested in the visit, while politicians railed against the police resources ploughed into the visit, funded by the taxpayer.

On the ground, as is often the way with royal jobs, it was a remarkably different story.

The couple arrived at the Royal Children's Hospital in Melbourne to as big a crowd as I have ever seen on such an engagement.

The young patients, staff and families clamoured to get a glimpse of the VIP visitors as they shook hands, hugged and waved their way through the corridors in the course of 45 minutes.

The couple were greeted by a huge crowd at the Royal Children's Hospital in Melbourne.

Meghan met with women at a refuge, getting in the kitchen to help serve meals.

When a nurse handed Prince Harry some toy meerkats to take home for their children, he joked: "Gifts for the kids, tick."

For a moment, I thought he was simply ticking off another predictable element of a royal engagement. In fact, (I think) he was simply ticking off something from his own to-do list.

The women the Duchess met later in a refuge were chuffed to see her, as were the veterans they spent time with after that.

The Duke was in his element: relaxed and charming. This is, of course, the job he was raised to do.

Meghan and Harry met with sick children, accepting gifts like flowers.

The Duchess is pretty good at it too, though perhaps more noticeably aware of the cameras and the eyes on her every move.

Was she sending a message with her choice of clothing – Karen Gee's Priscilla dress, designed to "empower" and defined as "an exercise in refined strength"?

When Prince Harry darted away from his group at the Australian National Veterans Art Museum to touch a piece of art, she gave him a look I imagine is not unfamiliar to Archie and Lilibet.

On the flip side, he is still her guiding hand. When the Duchess was given a book of poetry, she politely looked at it and put it down, only for Prince Harry to tell her, gently, to "keep it".

What does Buckingham Palace make of such high-profile royal gallivanting? There will be the odd chuckle and eye roll, no doubt, but you can bet they are watching closely nonetheless.

Could the Duke and Duchess have been an asset to the Royal family? Undoubtedly, yes, as this tour so far seems to indicate. A shame, then, that they squandered so much goodwill by trashing them so destructively.

It was impossible to tell whether the crowd gathered on the street outside the veterans' museum might be there to boo and jeer or clamour for selfies.

As the doors opened and the couple came back out on to the pavement, there were only more cheers.